So, you want to increase your attractiveness?
I decided to dive into this topic here not for vanity purposes, but because when I FEEL prettier, I DO better.
Notice, I didn't say when I AM prettier. Because it's not a matter of what you are or are not... it's a matter of how you FEEL about yourself.
You know the phrase "look good, feel good, play good"? I truly believe in that.
If you miss the depth to the meaning of "look good" and you think it's determined by a score (insert: she's a 10) or others' perceptions, then you are missing my point.
Looking good means so much more than the eye can see.
And once you grasp that concept, we can immediately become more attractive. Seriously!
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How to immediately become more attractive:
1. Dress the part
Here's the thing, you might HATE dressing up... here is the good news - "dressing up" isn't what is required to be "attractive".
What IS required is a little effort. Effort can be many different things, but let's start small here: match.
Matching options: choose one
- Your shirt color and your shoe color match
- Your purse color and your pant color match
- Your jacket (outer layer) and your pant color match
You can literally do this with ANYTHING - even if it's an athliesure outfit or a fitness outfit. It doesn't always have to be uncomfy heels and a blazer.
2. Accessorize
There are no rules when it comes to accessories. The only rule is "do what lights you up".
But if you have no idea where to start then let's make this one simple too.
Accessory options: choose one
- Hoop earrings (honestly, ya just cannot go wrong with these), just trust me. Doesn't matter how big or how small, hoops are a girls bestie.
- You can do hoop earrings alone if you want, but if not - add a necklace. NO it doesn't have to match the earrings perfectly. But remember this, if the hoops are large, then go for a smaller chain necklace. If the hoops are small, go for a thicker chained necklace.
- A belt. If you have loops on your pants that can hold a belt, just add one would ya? If no loops on the pants, can you add a belt to excentuate your waist (just underneath your bottom rib).
3. Lipticious
We are honestly just getting started here and I haven't even begun to dive into makeup yet, but let's discuss the ONE thing that will elevate your face REGARDLESS.
You ready for it?
Wet lips, baby.
Not just any lip gloss, but the super wet looking kind. This could honestly just be some aquafor or vaseline! But you want juicy, rested and healthy looking lips even if you have zero makeup on! It does wonders, truly.
You can use these 3 tips EVERYDAY to immediately become more attractive!
Remember, at the end of the day we are aiming to DRESS LIKE HER.
Her = the next-level version of you.
Which means, we never fully "arrive" at this place, it is a journey of evolving into our highest self. It is a path to becoming confident, elevated and fulfilled through this embodiment work.
If you want to join the FREE Dress Like Her community, WE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE YOU!
Don't forget, once you are inside GET YOUR INTRO up! You will get out of this group what you put in! SEE YOU THERE, BOO!
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